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You’ve been called.

You’ve been called to step up, to lead, to serve, to write, to create, to enact change, to generate, to produce, to speak and to succeed. Yes. To succeed.

And I think you’ve heard yourself SAY that you’re ready to answer the call.

It’s just, you’ve also heard yourself say:

It’s too late.
I’m not ready.
It’s all been done.
It doesn’t make sense.
It’s going to be too hard.
No one will listen.

What if none of that was true? I know it SEEMS true. You’ve certainly gathered enough evidence to support these claims. Yet, you’re here reading. Because you know that under the piles of story lives the truth. YOUR truth. And it’s swathed in desire.

Let’s shine some light on that. On you.

It’s your starring role that’s calling. Are you ready to step in?

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All the ways we can make magic

Good coaching is all about forward motion, propulsion, and stepping…

You’re in Good Company

When Tara Gentile got the call about teaching on live video in front of thousands of online viewers, her immediate reaction was, “Who me?”

Have stage. Will inspire.

You’ve got a stage and I’ve got a message. And presence. And power. And persuasion. Let’s talk…

When Things Just Aren’t Clicking

It’s time to shine some light on the situation. The Spotlight Session illuminates the places that seem dark and unknown.

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Don’t confuse getting noticed with being seen.

Getting noticed is a wonderful feeling. Rousing, actually. A wake-up call to our capacity and maybe even our impact. It’s that: “Hey, what you’re up to is attractive, alluring, enticing. I want to come a little bit closer.” It’s the raised eyebrow, wink + nod of “you’re on the right path, Love.” It’s the first step. It’s the foot in the door. It’s important. It’s also fleeting. It does not endure. And it requires us to deepen in. To activate. To make it count. Which is good. So long as what we are getting noticed for is aligned with our true selves, our art, our vocation, our purpose. What.We.Want.To.Be.Known.For. And the flip is also true. One of the things you might be fearing about your imminent success IS in getting noticed: Being noticed can be a burden. Jesus got himself crucified because he got himself noticed. So I disappear a lot. – Bob Dylan I get that. The assumptions people make about you because they extrapolate one sliver of what they’ve noticed in you. The projections that show up as a result. That’s why boundaries exist. (Make ‘em good.) For the moment, let’s hold tight over here in the land of wanting to get noticed. Knowing your message, your art, your work needs exposure and noticing before it reaches the critical mass it so deeply desires. A word of caution. In a hunger to get noticed, I’ve seen people act incongruently in ways that are foreign to their soul…which sets them up for three paths of suffering: Their Impostor Complex will sound the deafening and defeating bullhorn of “FRAUD!”;...
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